February 2012
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That's the Story of, That's the Glory of...
As I watched CC and Hillary write letters to each other from the time they were 11 years old well into adulthood,I asked myself where did that age of communication go?
As I sat in my room watching “Beaches” while the other half of the whole that makes up my long distance relationship got ready to depart from the confines of my room, I asked that question out loud. His response gave...
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I saw an interesting facebook post this morning and it propelled me to write this. Someone posted a link about the late Whitney Houston’s daughter getting high after her mother’s funeral. While we don’t know what she was getting high on but someone’s comment was “aint nothn wrong w/ a lil weed to brign u outta the duldrums….jus sayin…” and someone...
keykeyhands asked: where did you get 30% off of those jeffrey campbells?
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As usual, Patrick Stump singing my life in a...
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No-Buy Month moved to April
Broke my no buy month because someone made me so angry today the only way I was going to recoop from my anger was to go out and do something. Here on the shore there isn’t much to do. Granted I coulda easily got a piercing or something but I think 7 is enough for me.
I went to the mall with my friend and caught a New York & Co sale. I will say I did manage to pay a bill and purchase...
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Feeling alone and misunderstood is quite possibly...
THIS!!!!!!
January 2012
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You know what would be great?
I would LOVE to come home to dinner waiting for me, a drawn bath, and a full body massage.
A girl can dream right?
Born a G, But Always a Gent: Social Networks &... →
The first two sentences of Number 3 are very important and that area is where people fuck up the most, especially men in regards to female friends. Nothing wrong with having female friends who will make a joke, but people lack the ability to create and maintain boundaries because they see it is “changing for another person.” Your situation changing doesn’t mean you have...
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This addresses why I don't see myself wanting to... →
I’m not saying that home ownership is not a goal of mine one day, but honestly it’s not something I really care to focus on right now. I grew up in New York City (Manhattan) and quire frankly apartment living fits my lifestyle more than anything. Now of course I don’t want to live in a closet but a nice Condo or Townhouse is something I think I can get great use out of and still...
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Couponing and Dating. →
I’m pretty sure many women (especially black ones… sorry girls) would have a problem with this but I wouldn’t. I feel like if a man takes me out and he’s using a deal in order to do so, it means he carefully planned what we have to do. It’s one thing to take a chick out to Ray Ray’s Fried Chicken and yell out “Aye I got this coupon for the 5...
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“Anyway, all of this has been on my mind lately. I have no doubt in my mind that...”
– Black Women’s Confidence, Self Image, and the Problem of Mixed Messages (via harriettumbles)
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Miss Jessie product review #naturalhair
So I told you ladies I’d be doing a review on the Miss Jessie products I purchased during the Target Miss Jessie BOGOF sale. I know I said I would do a video but there’s so many videos on this stuff already so I’ll just keep it here and keep it literary. ORIGINAL POST HERE
So for those of you who don’t follow my blog, I have 4b (I like to call it 4z) natural hair and I...
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This really has me thinking about reverting to a book a read a long time ago. I’m slipping back into ways I don’t want to get back to
best-crisis-ever:
that post about loving being in a relationship where you can be assholes to one another. So you’re telling me that you are ONE not only admitting to being an asshole but you are TWO open to dating one as well. Now don’t let me see...
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I wish it would rain...
That way the day can reflect my mood. Today is payday and the weather is beautiful, and yet I feel icky. I’m not exactly sure but I think something I wrote hurt someone I really care about… A LOT. Seeing as how he won’t talk to me I really can’t call it but that’s the only logical explanation.
My alarm went off at 7am like it was supposed to but I could not find...
This song= AMAZING. I really love her sound....
ajc23 said: When I saw that people were taking the time to reply to her ..I was like REALLY? What’s the point of trying to bash or sway the opinion of somebody whose logic makes absolutely 0 SENSE? Just let them live in their own crazy world and keep it moving.
Exactly….
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Call A Spade A Spade: basic bitches and the basic...
“Here this bitch goes ranting again…” Nah it’s not a rant, more of a question… This morning this tweet comes across a tweet that implied the following: Men who can cook are faggots (her words not mine). Now I am not sure if the young lady who said it is aware… but that was a basic bitch statement. More of a dumb bitch statement but I don’t expect much...
The Misunderstood Good Man: Dating with a purpose →
*STANDING OVATION* Men, please take notes! Especially where my brother discusses how you date to make sure you are the best she has because she can leave you at anytime.
themisunderstoodgoodman:
So you’re dating someone who brings so much to the table, who has things going for them, charming,compatible, and overall basically a great catch in your eyes. Things are going well and you are truly...
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Response to International Trip Post
“my-thoughts-only answered: lol..I never even thought of a list of places that if my “beau” went to, I was single..I figure if he traveling out of the US. Im coming.lol”
That’s where my disconnect is, because my thought pattern is that if you’re making plans to go out of the country, then I need to be going with you. A trip with your boys over a trip with me = NO NO.
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Solo International Trips... and relationships...
So yesterday while watching the Giants vs. the Cowgirls in Hooters with my bf and a friend, a convo came up. Said friend mentioned he wanted to take a trip to an island in the Caribbean and my bf told him he should take his gf with him his response was “Why? Ain’t like I’m going to Brazil.”
It was funny because I have told every guy I’ve ever been in a relationship...
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Goals For 2012
1. Finances Raise my credit score by 20 or more points
Only buy 5 pairs of sneakers for myself
Save more money and put it into an account that grows
Set budgets and stick to them
2. Health
Be able to run 3 miles without getting tired
Gain about 10 lbs
Work on my core
Eat 5 planned meals a day
BC my hair and get it down to BSL
3. Love/Relationships
Make sure I get all my friends...
December 2011
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"2012 is gonna be my year"- STFU
… So its about that time folks. The time where where everyone learned who their true friends were, experienced so much bullshit in their lives, and all other things that point to the oh so cliche “(insert year), is gonna be my year.” My question is ‘wasn’t last year your year too?’ Weren’t you supposed to cut of that friend who always expects them to do...
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